Survival Tips For Being A SAHM

I’ve only really been a SAHM for two weeks. Since Elisha’s birth till up to two weeks ago, I’ve always have had some help or other around me. While I’ve not been a SAHM very long at all, I must say I’ve learnt a few survival tricks. Here is just my starter list:

1. Time Management is key. While time is not money for the SAHM, efficient use of time is the secret to maintaining the SAHM’s sanity.

2. Carpe Diem (Seize the Day!) is a wise motto to have. With all the baby caring and domestic chores, you can slip into the mundane motions of domestic life. Pick a few or even one area of interest that you would like to pursue, and set aside time every day to pursue that interest. This would help minimise the chances of you feeling like you are wilting away into a plebian existence.

3. Get Connected. Find other mums who can share in your mothering journey. Moral support is very helpful especially when you feel like you are failing as a SAHM.

4. Me-Time is Compulsory. Never neglect yourself. There is a reason why so many people say that if you cannot take care of yourself, you cannot take care of others. A frazzled, tired person is bound to be bad company. Bad vibes rub off on the baby. Find the time to do the things you need to recharge and get energised so that the baby, and your husband, can enjoy the best of you.

5. Eat and Drink Well. I am the kind of person who gets really cranky when I’m hungry. I need my food and drink. And especially since I’m breastfeeding, I need to be more conscious of my diet. So I’m telling myself to eat and drink well. I’m even trying to plan my weekly lunches and dinners so that I can cook and freeze portions for my meals in advance.

Do you have your own list of tips for being a SAHM? Please do share them with me!